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Proverbs 31

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The words of King Lemuel—the revelation which his mother taught him:
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“Oh, my son! Oh, son of my womb! Oh, son of my vows!
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Don’t give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.
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It is not for kings, Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine, nor for princes to say, ‘Where is strong drink?’
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lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the justice due to anyone who is afflicted.
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Give strong drink to him who is ready to perish, and wine to the bitter in soul.
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Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.
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Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate.
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Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy.”
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Who can find a worthy woman? For her value is far above rubies.
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The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain.
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She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.
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She seeks wool and flax, and works eagerly with her hands.
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She is like the merchant ships. She brings her bread from afar.
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She rises also while it is yet night, gives food to her household, and portions for her servant girls.
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She considers a field, and buys it. With the fruit of her hands, she plants a vineyard.
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She arms her waist with strength, and makes her arms strong.
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She perceives that her merchandise is profitable. Her lamp doesn’t go out by night.
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She lays her hands to the distaff, and her hands hold the spindle.
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She opens her arms to the poor; yes, she extends her hands to the needy.
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She is not afraid of the snow for her household, for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
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She makes for herself carpets of tapestry. Her clothing is fine linen and purple.
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Her husband is respected in the gates, when he sits among the elders of the land.
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She makes linen garments and sells them, and delivers sashes to the merchant.
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Strength and dignity are her clothing. She laughs at the time to come.
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She opens her mouth with wisdom. Kind instruction is on her tongue.
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She looks well to the ways of her household, and doesn’t eat the bread of idleness.
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Her children rise up and call her blessed. Her husband also praises her:
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“Many women do noble things, but you excel them all.”
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Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.
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Give her of the fruit of her hands! Let her works praise her in the gates!
Chapter overviewAI-generated

Overview.
This final chapter of Proverbs transitions from royal wisdom taught by a king’s mother to a poetic celebration of the wise and capable woman, embodying the virtues of the fear of the Lord. It closes the book by personifying wisdom in practical, domestic, and moral terms, showing how godly character manifests in daily life, leadership, and service to others.

Flow.

  • Begins with a mother’s urgent counsel to King Lemuel, warning against moral and political corruption, particularly through indulgence and neglect of justice.
  • Calls rulers to sobriety and advocacy for the vulnerable, grounding public integrity in covenant fidelity (WCF 23.1).
  • Shifts abruptly to the acrostic portrait of the eset chayil (worthy woman), whose industriousness, care, and wisdom reflect divine order.
  • Culminates in her public recognition, with her works declaring her praise in the community gates, where justice and wisdom are enacted (Prov. 31:31).

Connections.
Following chapter 30, which grapples with human limitation and the purity of God’s word (Prov. 30:5–6), chapter 31 grounds wisdom in covenant responsibility — first through kingship shaped by maternal instruction, then in the life of a woman who lives out that wisdom fully. Where Agur’s humility before God’s Word prepares the reader for dependence on divine revelation (WCF 1.6), Lemuel’s mother and the worthy woman exemplify its embodiment in governance and domestic order. This prepares for the transition to Ecclesiastes, where the evaluation of labor and legacy (cf. Eccl. 2:18–26) finds its counterpoint in the enduring fruit of a life rooted in the fear of the Lord.

What it teaches.
True wisdom is rooted in the fear of the Lord and expressed in disciplined life and just rule, whether in governance or in household management. Sobriety, care for the oppressed, and faithful stewardship define the leader (Prov. 31:4–9; cf. HC LD 38), while the worthy woman encapsulates Proverbs’ vision of wisdom as active, generous, and God-revering (Prov. 31:30; cf. WCF 16.2). Her value is not in appearance or charm but in character formed by reverence for God, echoing the teaching that true blessedness belongs to those who walk in His ways (Ps. 128:1; BC Art. 24). The chapter affirms that holiness encompasses both public justice and private diligence, and that such a life, though rare, is recognized and blessed by God and community alike.

Apply.
Honor the quiet, daily labors that sustain families, feed the hungry, and uphold dignity, knowing they reflect God’s own order and are remembered in His gates.

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