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Song of Solomon 5

Lover

1
I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride. I have gathered my myrrh with my spice; I have eaten my honeycomb with my honey; I have drunk my wine with my milk. Eat, friends! Drink, yes, drink abundantly, beloved.

Friends

Beloved

2
I was asleep, but my heart was awake. It is the voice of my beloved who knocks: “Open to me, my sister, my love, my dove, my undefiled; for my head is filled with dew, and my hair with the dampness of the night.”
3
I have taken off my robe. Indeed, must I put it on? I have washed my feet. Indeed, must I soil them?
4
My beloved thrust his hand in through the latch opening. My heart pounded for him.
5
I rose up to open for my beloved. My hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with liquid myrrh, on the handles of the lock.
6
I opened to my beloved; but my beloved left, and had gone away. My heart went out when he spoke. I looked for him, but I didn’t find him. I called him, but he didn’t answer.
7
The watchmen who go about the city found me. They beat me. They bruised me. The keepers of the walls took my cloak away from me.
8
I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, If you find my beloved, that you tell him that I am faint with love.

Friends

9
How is your beloved better than another beloved, you fairest among women? How is your beloved better than another beloved, that you do so adjure us?

Beloved

10
My beloved is white and ruddy. The best among ten thousand.
11
His head is like the purest gold. His hair is bushy, black as a raven.
12
His eyes are like doves beside the water brooks, washed with milk, mounted like jewels.
13
His cheeks are like a bed of spices with towers of perfumes. His lips are like lilies, dropping liquid myrrh.
14
His hands are like rings of gold set with beryl. His body is like ivory work overlaid with sapphires.
15
His legs are like pillars of marble set on sockets of fine gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, excellent as the cedars.
16
His mouth is sweetness; yes, he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, and this is my friend, daughters of Jerusalem.
Chapter overviewAI-generated

Overview.
This chapter shifts from intimate union to painful absence, tracing the Shulammite’s longing for her beloved after a moment of missed opportunity. It begins with a celebration of consummated love, moves through a dream-like encounter where she delays and loses him, and culminates in sorrowful pursuit and a vivid poetic praise of his excellence, underscoring both the depth of her love and the cost of spiritual or relational delay.

Flow.

  • The chapter opens with the beloved declaring his enjoyment of the garden—symbolizing fulfilled intimacy and mutual possession (v. 1).
  • The woman recounts a nocturnal vision: her beloved calls for entry, but she hesitates, and upon finally responding, finds him gone (vv. 2–6).
  • Her search leads to suffering and vulnerability as she is mistreated by the watchmen (v. 7), prompting an urgent plea to the daughters of Jerusalem (v. 8).
  • In response to their questioning, she extols her beloved’s unmatched beauty and virtues in rich, symbolic detail (vv. 10–16).

Connections.
Following chapter 4, where the lovers celebrate their mutual delight and the bride is declared “perfect in beauty” (4:7), this chapter disrupts the harmony with a narrative of absence and longing, showing how even after intimacy, relationship requires vigilance. The garden imagery of 5:1 echo, now fulfilled, yet immediately contrasted by loss. The pain of delay and the search in darkness prepare the reader for chapter 6, where the community engages with her quest and the beloved is found again, suggesting a cycle of presence, loss, and renewed seeking that mirrors the soul’s journey with Christ.

What it teaches.
The chapter teaches that communion with the beloved can be deeply sweet (cf. WCF 17.1 on the believer’s communion with Christ), yet vulnerable to human delay or spiritual sloth. The woman’s hesitation—though brief—results in temporary loss and sorrow, illustrating the seriousness of responding promptly to Christ’s call (HC LD 32, Q. 86). Her passionate description of the beloved’s glory reflects the way Christ is portrayed in Scripture as supremely lovely and worthy of all praise (LD 19, Q. 49–50), the one in whom all excellencies meet. The physical and emotional suffering she endures in seeking him reminds believers that the pursuit of Christ may involve trial, yet love constrained by no obstacle (cf. Canons of Dort 5.8 on the perseverance of the saints).

Apply.
When Christ knocks in invitation, respond immediately—delay risks loss, but his worth makes every effort to find him worthwhile.

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